New Fertility Testing

In Europe there is a blood test that has been used to test the AMH (Anti-Mullierian Hormone) levels in women.  Michael Alper, Chief Medical Officer of Boston IVF believes this test is an excellent predictor of a woman's egg count.  The test is done from a blood sample.

At this time the FDA has not approved this for use in the United States, however it is possible that your doctor can provide the test.  You would need to consult with your phsycian.

So if you are anxious about the ticking of your biological clock - This could be the test for you. 

Fertility Research

Science and Technology is always growing in the field of infertility.  I found this article which I thoughht you might enjoy reading.

It just amazes me what we are able to do.

 

Staying Strong Through It All

Infertility can be a draining process.  For many couples, it starts by wanting a child and then finding out for some reason it won't be so easy for them.  Depending on why you aren't getting pregnant the solutions can be exhausting.

Infertility affects some 6 million Americans.  For most, this is a major life crisis that puts enormous stress on a marriage.  While some couples become stronger;  learning to lean on and support each other through the experience.  Other couples feel it drives them apart.  This is not to say that they don't still love one another, but the feelings of loss are overwhelming. 

You need to understand that everyone copes differently.  Some people become quiet, because the pain to much to face.  While others want to take it head on and consume themselves in the search discussing every avenue of the situation.  It is important to understand both your partners and your own way of dealing with this.  Most importantly is to communicate and let each other know how you are feeling. 

While searching for the right donor or surrogate, don't loose sight of who you are.  Continue to live, have fun with each other.  Enjoy dinner out, go see a movie - Do the things you have enjoyed together.  Not only will this give you something else to focus on, but it will remind you of what you love about the other person.

 

 

How To Choose An IVF Center

Throughout my week in the office, I receive many calls from Intended Parents who are just starting to look at egg donors or surrogacy as an option.  Often they do not know what steps to take to make their dream of parenthood come true.  Thier website search had lead them to me, but they aren't sure what comes next. 

For obvious reasons, it will be necessary for the couple to have an IVF Physician or Center selected.  There are many factors you will want to consider when choosing an IVF Physician. 

  • Success Rate of the Center
  • Quality of Service (Compasion, Care, Cleamliness, etc.)
  • Location

I would strongly suggest that you create a list of potential Centers, make an appoitment for a consultation at each and then take notes as you discuss the options with the Physician.  You can also ask to have a tour of the facility.  You wil want to see that the facility appears to run smoothly, meaning that office staff are being productive, communicating with eachother in a manner that creates a effective environment.  Are the examing rooms clean, nothing left behind from the previous patient or exams.  And most important, do you feel comfortable and possitive about the experience. 

The decision made is a personal one.  Just because a friend or family member used a particular facility, does not mean that facility will be right for you.  The best thing you can do is to research your choice before committing to your decision.